i have known my friend for 12+ years and his wife for 10+ years. they got married last december and they are both seemingly happy with a child. but last month we were all had a get-together and having a good time and she gave me a lap dance when her husband went to go to the bathroom. she was laughing, so it wasnt like it was erotic or romantic, she was just playing around. but what she didnt know was that for the past 6 or 7 years i’ve been physically attracted to her. i’ve even had sex while thinking about her (more than once)
but after that lap dance things kicked into a downward spiral that i enjoy SO much. things went from dances to rubbing when we walk by eachother, to dirty messages (in both email & text form) and eventually we hooked up one day when her husband was off at work and her kid was with his grandparents, then again a few days later, then again, and again. the one time i went over and my intentions were not for that, i was returning a miter saw that i borrowed and we ended up doing it in the kitchen.
i hadn’t really felt guilty up until last Friday when he was at work, and her kid was actually in the house when we did it (he’s 4) and he walked in on us and asked what the noise was and she told him that we were wrestling and he said "can i play?" and i said no (cuz we were naked) and she said maybe anothertime. we discussed the situation, and i felt pretty bad after that, and the whole weekend up until now. he’s a good friend and a cool guy, i recently helped him install wood flooring in their house and we just hung out and had a few drinks afterwards. there is no tension or awkwardness when we are all around but i dont want to be the cause of their separation and lose 2 good friends. so what can i do now to quit while i’m ahead? i mean she is the best i’ve ever had, and she tells me im the best vaginal + oral partner she’s ever had(whether its truth or a false confidence booster who knows) but i cant deal with the guilt and i know this will eventually end badly if it continues, so i need to end it. its like kicking an addiction to the curb. i need to know how to quit before i ruin a good marriage
You are a FARKING LEGEND, you are my hero, can you post a pic of urself so i can hang it in my workshop. All hail the king!
F u c k your friend, there are plenty of people to make friends with out there but honestly how many more hot sex bi tc hes do you think you will meet??
I think you need to promise yourself NOT to ever do it again.Tell her, frankly that you enjoyed her company, but this "relationship" must end for the greater good. No need to destroy this marriage.
stop seeing her. I suggest going to visit both of them and not going over when he is gone. Be casual when you are alone with her, don’t text or email her. Be careful and good luck. Hope things work out for the best.
How dear you :s do this to your best friend wow n that women is mssd up and poor kid u two all ready destroy his family and good you feel guilty now u should feel like that from the begining get away from her don’t even talk to them change ure phone number avoid her get ure own gf or whatever stay away from them think in that little kid who is growing up he needs his real family n nt u to destroy his world omg ure mssd up too mssd up go to a sicologist and talk to him/her they may help u to deal with ure problem
I think you need to put a stop this asap. Do not allow your self to be arous her when her husband is not there with you. I do not see how this is ever going to stop and still have your friendships in place. But good luck.